Sunday, March 21, 2010
What have you done for you lately?
Do you remember that Janet Jackson song, “What Have You Done For Me Lately?” The song was released in 1986, during a time when music videos were cool, unlike present day. Anyway I digress, instead of the original song title I think, “What Have I Done For Me Lately” would have been better. Reason: our happiness should not rely on one person or relationship, but rather how we own the decisions that create happiness and peace in our lives. Often times when people let themselves go, they’ll say they didn’t have time for themselves or everyone else came before their needs. I’m suspicious these people put everyone ahead of themselves just to be a martyr. Carving out time for ourselves whether it’s a workout or a night out is important. Do not put undo pressure on your partner or kids to be the sole keeper of your happiness. Create some sunshine of your own. So, what have you done for you lately?