Friday, May 21, 2010
A Husbands Response
Today I asked my dear sweet husband if he noticed any changes in me since I became a SAHM. Now I’ll preface his answer by saying I ask him ‘out of the blue, uber serious questions’ all the time and he looks at me like, ‘Come On’. So back to his response, he says, “Well you don’t worry about work anymore, so you are less worried”. I laughed! Of course that is not the answer I hoped for, it was a very safe answer. I wanted him to say well, darling, amazing, talented, wife you seem blissfully happy on the inside and out (or something cheesy like that). The purpose of this post is to poke fun at my continual need to evaluate any situation I’m in. Equally as funny are my husband’s non-serious responses to my serious questions. My evaluations are less about being insecure than my attempt to seek to understand the situation beyond me and my perception. When you take yourself too seriously, you definitely don’t need a partner that feeds that need. So me being me, it’s time for a question….Are you a constant evaluator of life? If so, do you find it constructive or destructive?