Wednesday, June 23, 2010
I’m Surprised Your Surprised
Do you know couples that are truly frustrated by one another, particularly post kids? Sure all couples bicker and fight because, well we are all human. What puzzles me are the women, primarily, that are surprised by what type of fathers their husbands turned out to be or how irresponsible their men are. As with any opinion there are always exceptions and people can change after I Do. That said, I would venture to say a vast majority of women know exactly what they are getting into when they say yes. They know the good, bad and the ugly about their men and enter into the commitment willingly. So why are so many women taken back at how lazy or uninvolved some of their men are? Their men were good enough when they said Yes but now that they decided to have a family and/or add to their responsibilities the men are no longer good enough. This is why I’m always surprised they are surprised. What do you think?