Over the past few years I’m slowly learning that other people’s decisions are theirs and in general should not affect me (safety concerns aside).
Example: A relative being careless with money. While this may affect me 15 years from now, there is nothing I can do now (trust me) to change the situation.
With that realization, there is no reason to expound any mental energy on a situation I do not own.
Focusing on my prerogative versus what someone else is or is not doing eliminates a great deal of animosity and resentment.
Now it’s your turn, are you good at staying in line with your own business?