As I age I realize not everything needs to be discussed over and over. Not every problem is significant enough that it needs to be brought to the surface. There are also occasions when time and distance gives us the perspective we need to make necessary changes. At the same time it’s healthy to address problems and work to change them instead of waiting weeks, months or years for them to come to a resolution.
Making the choice all depends on the situation but perhaps the most important lesson I’m learning is the more emotional I am - the more time and distance I need.
How do you decide which option (A) immediately discuss/address/work to change or B) time and distance) to select?
PS: For some of you I'm not able to comment on your posts (thanks blogger) - please know I'm reading them. Perhaps this issue just needs some time and distance :-)